Hey. I've never heard of this issue happening before, so my first guess is somehow the mods you used might have inadvertently done this. Regardless, I can edit an incubator into your save file if you want. Find your save in %appdata%/StardewValley/Saves (zip the folder that has your character's name on it) and send it to me via upload to a file sharing site like dropbox and then send me a private message here with the link (preferred) or as an email attachment. If you send it as an email please let me know in a private message here anyway

Hi, sorry you are experiencing issues. Are you certain it only started after the 1.4.5 update?

If you are both playing on Steam, I have something I will ask you to try.

Everyone who is playing multiplayer together must do the following:

1. In Steam library, right click on Stardew Valley, and select "Properties"

2. Select the "Betas" tab

3. In the Field labeled "Enter beta access code to unlock private beta", type "testSDKupdate" (no quotes)

4. press "Check Code"

5. Select the "stats" beta from the drop down menu.

6. Press Close. Stardew Valley should now update, and the title in the library should have a [stats] label next to it

Then try playing as normal. Please let me know if the disconnects still happen or if there was any change to them.

Thank you

evilkumquat

That's immensely funny to me because my main was also an undead mage AND I used her name for my Stardew Valley character.

Mages are best if you focus on getting achievements what with their sweet, sweet teleport ability.

Cool! yeah, mages are great. I always played as a frost mage, through thick and thin

I was actually a WOW player for many years (undead mage), and while I don't play it anymore, I do think the game had an influence on my game development style. Many people describe Stardew Valley as "addictive" and I think some of that might come from the WOW influence.