When the pacific released, everyone on this sub was on board and in good spirits because the game seemed to have regained a sense of direction. That all went out the window with 5.2 and the AWFUL ttk change, which may I remind you was also forced upon us the first christmass of the game live cycle (I say forced because, as with this last ttk change, the reasons wete not balancing or listening to community feedback, but attract new players and make the game "easier" to pick up). Not only that, but the game lacks basic features from Battlefield 1, literally the last game of the franchise, which had them long before in their devolepements.
It seems you are also forgetting all the people that had worked in the game and now are out of DICE and are starting to paint a picture of how it was in the developement side, and it seems things were not good by their side either.
I can't talk about everyone here, but I participate in other games subreddits and only in a few (the ones that deserve it) are people so upset and dissapointed with the product they wanted to like. And that is something you should not forget: the big majority of people that are mad about this game (myself included) are not crazy or toxic, we just expected a lot of the game based on their promises and were delivered and incomplete, half baked product that can't even deliver in the features advertised in the REVEAL TRAILER and all the ones that came before the release date.
I also think is unfair to blame the mods of this sub, I think they try very hard to mantain this space that, wether they like it or not, has become a space were people can air their complaints and know that at least a couple of members of the team will read them. Considering the amount of people and post that they have to manage every day, i don't belive they are doing a bad job.
It's interesting to me that, from all the people involved, you try to defend the one participant that absolutely didn't delivered on their promises, presented us a different game that they advertised (Firestorm? Combined arms? GRAND OPERATIONS?) and had been slow and unresponsive when it comes to updates and fixes (remember the time they made a poll on twitter to see if they modelled a german airplane or added mote vehicles, and then they didn't do any of them? Yeah, those sort of things are the reason people are mad and that show TO ME that there's not hope on the devs side to have a decent, half playable game, but only one where they can recover their money with skins and then move to other project.